Flying Private

I judge a certain life coach for flying private. It’s bad for the environment and that she shouldn’t tell us all to make shit tons of money and fly private too because then that’d be super bad for the environment!!

But… I don’t judge LeBron James for flying private. My automatic thought about it is, of course he flies private.

And I don’t judge Marc Cuban who owns 2 private jets (he used to own 3…). I think his time is valuable.

I judge the shit out of a female coach but when a man flies private, my gut reaction is “makes sense”.

And worse…

There’s a part of me that wants to fly private. There’s a dance festival in the south of Spain I wanna go to in February and it’d be so much easier to get there if I chartered my own plane. It’d be luxurious, comfortable and fun.

And a part of me feels deep shame even admitting that desire in me.

It’s like I’m evil and selfish for even considering it…

Now I’m not sure if I ever will… 

I’ll have to weigh my environmental morals with my desire for ease and comfort and cross that bridge when I’m making enough money to easily pay for that…

But what I do know is that I want to question this part of me that automatically vilifies women who prioritize their own ease and comfort and that doesn’t do that with men…

And my invitation is for you to question these parts of you too.


To freeing us all,



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Author: Bryn Bamber

Career Coach Bryn Bamber helps people like you find a career that’s aligned with your goals. Her Burnout to Brilliance program teaches you how to make small shifts that will free up tons of energy for the things you really love. Start today with your FREE Checklist: Decrease Stress and Get an Hour of Your Day Back! Get it here - Learn more about Bryn & the Burnout to Brilliance program at

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