Begging vs Demanding vs Asking

Begging

• Coming from a helpless energy
• Feels draining to the other person
• Secret demand
• If you don’t help me, I can’t handle this (child/victim energy)
• Fueled by fear/anger
  

Demanding

• Aggressive 
• Controlling
• Fueled by anger/fear
• Feels scary to the other person
• If you don’t help me, I’ll hurt you (child/victim energy)

Asking

• No strings attached
• Willing to be rejected
• Vulnerable
• Willing to ask others if this person says no
• Adult energy: I know that I’ll get this need met by asking as many ppl as I need to until someone can happily say yes
• Fueled by love
  It’s your time to ask for what you need and receive support.

  This is exactly what you’ll be learning in the Asking and Receiving Workshop in the West End of Toronto next Saturday (March 2nd).

  You’ll learn:

  – The main blocks for asking for what you need
  – More on the differences between: asking, demanding, claiming and begging…
  – How to soak in the support

  Date: Sat March 2nd, 10 – 2 pm
  Location: 151 Sterling Rd, Toronto, ON M6R 2B2
  Investment: $60+fees (a bit less if you bring a friend or two!)

  It’s my time to ask and RECEIVE!

Author: Bryn Bamber

Career Coach Bryn Bamber helps people like you find a career that’s aligned with your goals. Her Burnout to Brilliance program teaches you how to make small shifts that will free up tons of energy for the things you really love. Start today with your FREE Checklist: Decrease Stress and Get an Hour of Your Day Back! Get it here - tinyurl.com/getanhourback. Learn more about Bryn & the Burnout to Brilliance program at www.brynbamber.com. View all posts by Bryn Bamber