Every human has a kill switch because we’re mammals. It’s part of the lizard brain that’s helped our species survive!!
If there was a mammalian species that just said kumbaya when someone tried to kill their family, that species would be extinct.
And in present day, it tells us when a boundary has been crossed.
Yes, sexist racist capitalism exists and causes much suffering.
But when Grace puts a heart into painting the lake surrounded by mountains and you buy it. And it brings a sense of peace every time you walk into your living room, that’s a sacred exchange.
And when you sell something that creates joy or peace or a sense of security to the buyer, that’s sacred capitalism.
After trauma occurs, your brain develops a strategy to avoid future trauma.
The strategy could be:
These strategies actually helped you to stay safe when you were a child or when you were living in an abusive situation.
I felt like I was going to puke when I thought about closing my sliding scale. I loved this shit out of my clients (and still do!) and I knew some wouldn’t continue if I changed my pricing structure.
I felt pulled to do it but was terrified. And it took me about a year of coaching and therapy and journaling before I was willing to change. I gave every client 6 months’ notice so that they had time to make the decision and we had time for closure, if necessary.
And the only successful female entrepreneurs were Cruella and Meryl Streep in the Devil Wears Prada.
A wealthy woman who knows what she wants was always mean and evil. Continue reading “Biggest Money Block (for Women)”
It’s 50% off the full price of $6000 CDN (~$4650 USD) for 20 sessions over 6 months. With the scholarship the price becomes $3000 CDN ($2350 USD) for 20 sessions over 6 months.
Here’s what happened: I was moderating a panel of lawyers to a group of LGBTQIA refugees and I messed up.
As the moderator, I gave more airtime to the straight white lawyers on the panel and less time to the queer lawyers of colour.
1. Bryn and Isha both share mistakes they’ve made around race and how they worked to repair
2. How white supremacy in infiltrates mental health and healing spaces
3. Isha’s experience at the hardware store that left her feeling less than when she was growing up in Puerto Rico
Isha Vela supports her clients revealing layer by layer, the essence of who you are beyond the social conditioning, beyond the survival patterns and beyond the internalization of toxic systems of oppression.
Feminist Somatics Course: http://www.brynbamber.com
Connect with Isha:
IG: isha_vela
www.revolutionaryrompereglas.com (under construction)
Isha’s Current offering:
Retrograde Release: Surrender to Body Wisdom
https://revolutionaryrompereglas.ac-page.com/retrograderelease
Connect with Bryn
Book a free consultation with Bryn here – https://tinyurl.com/yourfreeconsult
Feminist Somatics Course: http://www.brynbamber.com
IG – https://www.instagram.com/bryn_bamber/
FB – https://www.facebook.com/bryn.bamber.5/
PS The name of the documentary with paranoia and surveillance:
The Feeling of Being Watched Documentary – http://www.feelingofbeingwatched.com/
To change how much money you have access to, you can:
Folks socialized as women are taught to spend less, while folks socialized as men are taught to earn more.
And last night at dance, I felt jealous when someone I wanted to dance with danced with someone else.
Jealousy is part of the human brain. Nothing has gone wrong if you feel jealous.
