Focusing on kindness


Sometimes I cut people off.  And I’m not proud of it.

As I rush to get off the subway I then notice the man with a cane that I’ve just cut in front of…

The last time I crashed a car, I was rushing too. On my way to yoga, ironically… But I was late and didn’t want to miss the class. The road was icy. I knew the road was icy, but thought somehow I was a super human driver.

I fishtailed until I slid into the curb and finally slowed down enough to stop. There were no other cars around.

I was lucky.

A couple of months ago when I was walking to a dance class I saw a car run into a man pushing a stroller. The kid was knocked out onto the road. I held my breath.

It was busy intersection, 20 people called 911 and the paramedics were there in no time.

From what I could see the kid was fine.

I bet that driver was rushing too.


You see, I consider myself a calm, confident and kind human. But when I rush, I become a little bit of an asshole.

I put my safety and the safety of others at risk. Or I cut someone off to get off the subway first. Or I brush people off when they ask for my help.

“Can’t you see I’m rushing??”

The basic rules of kindness and consideration go out the window.

So how do we stop?  How do we stop cutting people off?

It’s actually pretty simple.

Design your life so you don’t have to rush.

Get up early enough so you aren’t rushing on your way to work.  Leave early for meetings or appointments. Don’t take on more work then you can reasonably handle.

Of course, there are factors that are out of our control and some days we do have to rush.  But most days we don’t.

I don’t want to cut corners to meet a deadline. I don’t want to cut people off.  And one of main core values in life is this – don’t be an asshole.


Do you want to:

  • Stop rushing?
  • Stop feeling so drained?
  • Have more time for what you love?

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Bryn Bamber
Career & Burnout Coach


Author: Bryn Bamber

I work with big hearted people who want to make a positive impact in the world. The only problem is: -Your career isn’t working -You wake up some days and don’t want to get out of bed -You’re stressed about paying the bills Career Coaching in the Forest teaches you how to make small shifts that will free up tons of energy for the things you really love. A life where you wake up to feeling a sense of purpose and easily pay the bills. I teach you how to approach making a career change in a way that is fun, easy and gets results :). I have over a decade of experience in the field of education and during my four years at an educational non-profit I hired enough contract staff to know what employers want and DON’T WANT in the job application process. So why did I start this? When I was 24, I was overwhelmed by my job working with vulnerable youth and fell apart. I moved to a yoga centre for 2 years to put myself back together. There I figured out what I was messing up at work and became a yoga and meditation teacher. Career Coaching in the Forest will help you to see the mistakes you’re making without having to move to a yoga centre! And use meditative practices to help you see where you need to go. I know exactly what it feels when something’s not right in your career and now I love helping others to make changes so their lives can become full of meaning and purpose again and so that you can make lots money too ;). Start today: get my Free Resource: Land Your Dream Job Checklist here - And above all else, please go for your dreams. Your life has meaning. You are here for reason. Find out what it is and when you do put all you that you got towards it! Talk soon! Bryn To learn more go to

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