What I learned from Gwyneth Paltrow, Stephen Colbert and Amy Schumer

When I was in my early twenties I despised celebrities. I couldn’t understand other people’s obsessions. Shallow people with no lives of their own are the ones who get obsessed with famous people, I thought. I was bigger, better and more intellectual than that. Other than Julia Roberts – I barely knew any celebrities names and I wore that as a badge of honour.

But recently things started to shift. It started with Amy Schumer. I think someone posted her acceptance speech at Glamour magazine on Facebook and I saw it.

I started watching her stand-up and interviews on Youtube. She was talking about the challenges of being single and having sex in a direct and funny way. It was funny, but it was also frank. And she was talking about topics I was too scared to discuss even with close friends. It was brave.

So Amy was my gateway celebrity that led to me watching interviews with Chelsea Handler, Jennifer Lawrence, Melissa McCarthy, Stephen Colbert, Gwyneth Paltrow, Jimmy Fallon, Kristen Wiig and of course Julia Roberts.

And I’ve learned a few things…

Persist

In the interviews, rejection often comes up. In one interview Jennifer Lawerence says, “Yes, of course, like anyone in this field I’ve been rejected 1000 times.” In another interview Gwyneth Paltrow says sarcastically, “No one has ever said anything bad about me before.”

It’s helpful for me to remember that people who I see as very successful have to go through a lot of rejection. When I get rejected, sometimes it makes me want to give up. Knowing successful people face it, helps me to keep going.

Be Yourself

Jimmy Fallon plays a funny nerdy awkward guy. He doesn’t try to be a macho man. Stephen Colbert says he wasn’t a very good student in high school. Now he goofs off for a living.

I want to accept and embrace who I am more.

These people who I used to scorn, I can now see in a similar way to professional athletes. People at the top of their game. People who can make me laugh or make me cry, but also teach me something.

Do you want to:

  • Be more of yourself?
  • Stop feeling so drained?
  • Have more time for what you love?

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Take care of yourself!!

Bryn
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Bryn Bamber
Career Burnout Coach
The Courage Compass
bryn@couragecompass.org

Author: Bryn Bamber

I work with big hearted people who want to make a positive impact in the world. The only problem is: -Your career isn’t working -You wake up some days and don’t want to get out of bed -You’re stressed about paying the bills Career Coaching in the Forest teaches you how to make small shifts that will free up tons of energy for the things you really love. A life where you wake up to feeling a sense of purpose and easily pay the bills. I teach you how to approach making a career change in a way that is fun, easy and gets results :). I have over a decade of experience in the field of education and during my four years at an educational non-profit I hired enough contract staff to know what employers want and DON’T WANT in the job application process. So why did I start this? When I was 24, I was overwhelmed by my job working with vulnerable youth and fell apart. I moved to a yoga centre for 2 years to put myself back together. There I figured out what I was messing up at work and became a yoga and meditation teacher. Career Coaching in the Forest will help you to see the mistakes you’re making without having to move to a yoga centre! And use meditative practices to help you see where you need to go. I know exactly what it feels when something’s not right in your career and now I love helping others to make changes so their lives can become full of meaning and purpose again and so that you can make lots money too ;). Start today: get my Free Resource: Land Your Dream Job Checklist here - tinyurl.com/dreamjobchecklist And above all else, please go for your dreams. Your life has meaning. You are here for reason. Find out what it is and when you do put all you that you got towards it! Talk soon! Bryn To learn more go to www.couragecompass.org

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