This moment, right here right now, is your whole life. Everything else is a thought about the future or a thought about the past.

I’ve spent my life chasing accomplishments.  Once I find an amazing partner I’ll be happy. Once I have this amount of money I’ll relax. Once I resolve this fight with my friend, I’ll feel more peaceful.

But I’ve realized that I could spend my whole life never fully getting “there”… because whenever I achieve one goal, another goal pops up.

And one of the biggest regrets of folks on their deathbed is, “I wish I’d let myself be happy.”

So let yourself be happy now even without the white picket fence or the 401k or perfect partner.

You can let yourself relax, with your life exactly as it is.

To remind yourself of what a badass you are ask:

What have you achieved in the last decade? What have you learned? In what ways have you grown? What are you most proud of?

Actually pause and take note…

See? I told you you were a badass. Bask in that and keep your amazing goals too. Just don’t deprive yourself of peace and happiness on the way there.


You got this,



PS If you’re a personal development junkie and want to take it to the next level using witchy somatic feminist techniques, I can help.

My clients sometimes call me a magician or, my personal fav, a witch, when it comes to helping them achieve their ambitious goals while at the same time feeling fulfilled with their life exactly the way it is. If you’re interested BOOP this link.

Author: Bryn Bamber

Career Coach Bryn Bamber helps people like you find a career that’s aligned with your goals. Her Burnout to Brilliance program teaches you how to make small shifts that will free up tons of energy for the things you really love. Start today with your FREE Checklist: Decrease Stress and Get an Hour of Your Day Back! Get it here - tinyurl.com/getanhourback. Learn more about Bryn & the Burnout to Brilliance program at www.brynbamber.com.

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