I feel frustrated sometimes that it’s taking me so long to pay off some debt from my training and the business coaching I’ve done.
My brain says:
What’s wrong with you? Everyone else can pay this off quickly. You must be the worst at business. You’re not meant to do this. You suck. You should get a corporate job because you clearly don’t know what the eff you’re doing.
But the other way to look at it is:
I’m learning so much about my abandonment issues and other traumas. I’m glad it’s taking time, because it’s showing me where I haven’t healed yet and how to heal. I’m willing for it to take as long as it needs.
And I know that this healing is going to help me in every area of my life going forward.
Every single leader goes through this…
Manifestation Babe took 3 years to manifest a dream house.
You could say that she’s “lost her touch” and she doesn’t know how to manifest.
But her perspective is that she’s so glad she got to heal all the trauma that was in the way of her manifesting her house. And she’s so happy to have found it now.
Or another multi-millionaire coach I know took years to find a healthy stable boyfriend. Even though she coaches on relationships.
You could say, there’s something wrong with her. She’s a bullshitter.
Or you could see that she needed to learn what she wanted at this stage of her life. She needed to date the wrong person to find out what her dealbreakers were.
So maybe it’s not a problem that you haven’t achieved your goal yet. Maybe there’s some trauma you need to heal. Or maybe you need to learn something about yourself first.
Maybe you:
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- started a business and it’s bringing up old shit you thought you’d worked through: fear of rejection, self doubt, perfectionism…
- or you’re yelling at your kids and miscommunicating with your husband and want a more loving peaceful home
- or nothing the doctors or physiotherapists suggests for your chronic back pain is working, and you sense there’s an emotional component around your dad that needs healing
- started a business and it’s bringing up old shit you thought you’d worked through: fear of rejection, self doubt, perfectionism…
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And maybe when you look back after healing this, you’ll be happy it took time because of all you’ve learned along the way.
And these are the kinds of issues I’ve already helped the 40+ private clients with.
And I can help you heal what’s getting in the way too. Book a free consult here 🙂 !!
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