You might’ve learned that receiving always had a catch. You had to give back, even if it was something subtle like praising your mom’s cooking.
As I type this, I feel the heavy icky feeling of obligation in my chest.
The good news is healing this will impact your love life, money mindset, ability to enjoy vacation, career fulfillment, all the things.
Here’s how:
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On your own stomp your feet, put your hands out in front of you to push that tainted energy away and say NO NO NO NO NO!
As a child you had to receive the tainted gifts because you couldn’t switch out your parents or caregivers. This exercise teaches your nervous system that it’s safe now to say no.
Then if you have a sickly sweet boss or partner, you can say no to the hug or the “free mentorship.” Or even get a new job or end the relationship. - Open to Receive Healthy Energy
Lie on your back, put your arms up to the sky with palms facing each other and say, “I need.”This is probably going to feel HORRIBLE at first but see if you open up to nature’s love.It’s safe now to ask for your needs. If the person you ask says no, you can ask someone else.
You have way more agency now compared to when you were a little kid and your parents were your only source of food/love/attention.
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And if you want to go even deeper into healing this, I can help.
From doing this I’ve had clients:
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- Find love after 15 years of failing
- Land the professor job that felt impossible and actually pays $20K more than she was expecting
- Had her Instagram TAKE OFF and her DMs full of folks asking for her support
And the Somatic Deep Dive program will teach you how to use this tool with your clients too so they can also get amazing results.
If you’re interested in the program email me at bryn@brynbamber.com with any questions or to get details.
You got this,
Bryn
PS The Advanced Somatic Techniques Workshop is available for lifetime access until this Friday at midnight. If you or someone you know is interested, check deets here.
