Opportunity Cost

What would my life be like if 3 years ago I’d put off making my Hinge profile?

I’d never have met my partner who I absolutely adore.

Maybe I’d be single. Maybe I’d have met someone else. And my life would be totally different…

Every day you make little decisions that take you towards or away from what you want.

Now this isn’t a bro-marketer post about hustling, never resting, being obsessed with productivity and fucking morning routines.

But what is the thing you REALLY WANT?? Like a full body craving?

Maybe it’s:

        • a sense of peace
        • a sense of confidence
        • or a romantic partner

Because here’s where opportunity costs comes in.

If I’d put off making my Hinge profile, I wouldn’t have the amazing partner I have today.

If I’d put off going to that dance class, I’d never have met the friend who introduced me to somatic work that completely changed my life.

If I’d put off doing my somatic training, I wouldn’t love my job as much as I do. I wouldn’t have helped all these amazing clients. And I wouldn’t be friends with so many amazing colleagues.

What have you been putting off that you know in your heart and guts and pelvis that you really want?

And what’s one teeny tiny baby step you could take towards that thing?


If you need a yelly cheerleader pep talk hit reply or message me and I’d freaking LOVE to cheer you on (for free obviously ;)!). It’s one of my superpowers…





PS If you’re a coach, therapist or healer in Toronto Advanced Somatics Class is in person Monday Jan 23rd, 7 – 9 pm :). Do you feel a tingle of excitement about it? Then don’t freaking put it off!! DEETS.


PSS If you’re feeling drawn to learning more somatics to use with your clients and getting them the most deep beautiful results possible, the Advanced Somatics Certification is for you. Check this out – brynbamber.com


Author: Bryn Bamber

Career Coach Bryn Bamber helps people like you find a career that’s aligned with your goals. Her Burnout to Brilliance program teaches you how to make small shifts that will free up tons of energy for the things you really love. Start today with your FREE Checklist: Decrease Stress and Get an Hour of Your Day Back! Get it here - tinyurl.com/getanhourback. Learn more about Bryn & the Burnout to Brilliance program at www.brynbamber.com.

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