Today I have amazing clients, a budding teaching career and a partner I care deeply about. Four years ago this would’ve COMPLETELY blown my mind.
I’d quit my job, was in a shitty relationship and was plummeting into debt – losing over $1000 per month.
So how did I turn it around?
Here are the steps:
1. Stability
By cutting down my expenses and getting a day job, I created enough financial stability that I wasn’t panicking all the time.
And I spent time creating deep and caring friendships, so that I felt more and more fulfilled and loved regardless of whether I was single or dating.
2. Learning
I watched Ted Talks on how to master online dating. And I watched FB Lives on how to market and grow my business.
I took marketing and sales courses that felt scary to invest in and promised myself to show up as the best student.
Google how to achieve your goal. And INVEST in a course or a coach that you resonate with to help you. You’ll achieve your goal so much faster that way.
3. Fail A Lot
I don’t even know how many first dates I’ve been on in the last few years and how many different apps I tried. I kept failing and failing and sometimes I’d quit for a few months but I didn’t give up.
In marketing and sales – I did every single thing wrong. Sometimes I was desperate. Sometimes I was too pushy. Sometimes I wasn’t assertive enough. In the past year alone I’ve done over 60 consultation calls and gotten a whole lot of nos.
But I didn’t give up. I kept learning and growing from the failures.
Sometimes things come easily but most of the time you have to be willing to fail a lot to achieve your dream.
4. Come From Love and Fun
When I went on a first date or a call with a prospective client, if I was in DESPERATE ENERGY, the other person could feel it and it NEVER worked out.
So instead I learned to have more fun by making sure I was doing other things that filled me up. For me that’s reading spiritual books, watching comedies, phone calls or coffee dates with friends and getting into nature.
You got this,
Bryn
P.S. This is the most comprehensive free program I’ve ever offered… Feminist Somatics: How to Help ANY Client Achieve Any GOAL!
You’ll learn:
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- how to help your clients complete the stress cycle
- to support your clients to remove patriarchal programming from their bodies and brains
- even more tools to make achieving their goals FUN and EASY
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PSS If you’re in Toronto come to the Wisdom of Pain Workshop. We ended up postponing it to Sat September 23rd. We’d freaking LOVE to have you!
Learn here 😉 !
